Can FP1 be modified to support 3G frequencies in America?

Unfortunately it is not possible to upgrade your Fairphone 1. The frequencies, that are supported, depend on the baseband modem used in a phone (not on the antenna). Since there are no modified versions of that part for the US market, your FP1 will stop to work when AT&T turns off 2G.

I see two possible options for you:

  1. Switch provider to one that provides service on the frequencies supported.
  2. Sell your FP1 and buy a FP2. (Working FP1s sell at quite high prices, some even at the original price.)