Hi, @AnotherMike!
I understand and share many of your concerns. I think sometimes it is te commitment to do things in a non-majority way, the “toll”, the “risk” you take to be “different”, “fair”.
However, keep in mind that people on the forum come in many cases because they have problems, and not to say how good they are without any problems. Therefore, there can be an overrepresentation of the first group, a kind of “bubble” can be created in which it seems that everything is worse than it really is.
I suggest you to take a look at these two surveys in which people vote on how happy they are with their FP3 or FP4:
- FP3(+): 📊 POLL: How satisfied or unsatisfied are you with your FP3 or FP3+?
- FP4: 📊 POLL: How satisfied or unsatisfied are you with your FP4?
Greetings and welcome to the forum! 