I did get your tone, I just canāt sit by and agree
Maybe itās myEnglish interpretation and use, [shouldā] which is a directive, a command an authoritative control.
Context matters! Typicallymust is a stronger form than should, however in some circumstances, should is used as an absolute command but is simply āsofterā or more polite
But I see that a lot of people see āshouldā as advice, but nevertheless a bit pushy.
Sadly I hate the word. Iāve been told a lot of what I should and should not do.
A problem with written text is that it is black and white there is no choice, i.e. text can seem authoritative. So when I use words that can have such a ādefinitiveā character I use quote marks to say āsomething like thisā
In speech telling someone they should do something although authoritative can be challenged and of course there can be better context and tone to moderate the meaning.
Hereās the video of a ~30min talk Luca Weiss gave at the Free Silicon Conference 2023 called āOpen Source for Sustainable and Long lasting Phonesā